Appointments
How to prepare for a menopause appointment with your GP
What NICE guidance says a GP should talk through about perimenopause and menopause, what to note down before you go, and questions you could ask.
Symptoms
You're not imagining it. Here's what the NHS lists as the early signs of perimenopause, how a GP can tell, and when it says to book an appointment.
Please see a GP about this. The NHS advises seeing a GP about any bleeding after menopause, even if it has only happened once or is only a small amount. If you feel very unwell, call NHS 111. In an emergency, call 999.
If you're having thoughts of harming yourself, you don't have to cope alone. Call Samaritans free on 116 123, any time, or call 999 if you're in immediate danger. For urgent help, call 111 and select the mental health option. 111 will tell you the right place to get help. You may be able to speak to a trained mental health professional over the phone.
Sources: NHS, Symptoms of menopause and perimenopause (reviewed 19 May 2026); NHS, Where to get urgent help for mental health. Last checked September 2026.
In short
Perimenopause is the time when your periods become irregular, before they stop. It happens because your hormone levels fall.
Menopause itself means you haven't had a period for 12 months, and you're not using hormonal contraception.
The NHS says menopause usually happens between the ages of 45 and 55, but it can happen earlier. NHS inform, the NHS in Scotland, says the average age in the UK is 51.
Symptoms usually last 7 to 9 years, sometimes longer. They can change over time.
One of the first signs is usually a change to your periods. They may come more often or less often. Bleeding may get heavier or lighter.
The NHS lists other symptoms, including:
You might notice a few of these, or many. The NHS says ethnic background can affect which symptoms you get, how severe they are and how long they last.
Things like this are common in perimenopause, and can have other causes. A GP can help work out which.
The NHS says to contact your GP if:
Early menopause is when you stop having regular periods before 45. Premature menopause is when this happens before 40.
The NHS says it's important to replace missing hormones if menopause starts before 45. That's because there's a higher chance of problems with your bones and heart. The NHS advises seeing a GP if you're under 45 and think you have menopause symptoms.
There's no routine test for perimenopause or menopause. The NHS says a doctor may diagnose it based on your age and symptoms.
NICE guidance for GPs says:
Hormonal contraception can make it harder to tell, because it can change your periods. If you use it, mention it to your GP.
If you haven't had a period for 12 months and then get any vaginal bleeding, see a GP. The NHS says it needs to be checked. That includes spotting, or pink or brown discharge, even if it's only happened once.
It's not usually serious, but it can be a sign of cancer. Cancer may be easier to treat if it's found early.
The NHS says a GP should refer you to a hospital or a special clinic. You should not have to wait more than 2 weeks to see a specialist.
You can still get pregnant during perimenopause. The NHS says you still need contraception:
A GP can talk through which contraception suits you now.
Write down what you've noticed and when it started. Then book a GP appointment. Our guide to preparing for your GP appointment can help you make the most of it.
Last checked September 2026. Next check September 2027.
This guide gives general information. It isn't medical advice, and it can't tell you what's right for you.
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